Yeah.. I know, two posts all month and its the 17th. What can I say either I am too boring to post or to busy. I have been telling myself for three days to sit down and do this post and something keeps getting in the way.. so forcing myself here we go.
In March when my grandmother pasted away I went and was there from 11pm Thursday till 6 am Saturday.. so that is 30 hours. In that trip I felt I was just to rushed, that maybe there was something I missed, family I missed. I wanted to have the chance to visit and see what connections were there, who to let into my life.
The opportunity came up that Sirj would be gone for while for work, the girls with their dad and all that would miss me would be the dog, so my mom and I booked a trip and the plan was that she would spend time with her brothers and sisters and I would hook up with my cousins and visit with her when it pleased me. Well.. plans went askew when my cousin passed away on the 4th.
There are 6 kids in my moms family, something like 22 grand kids and lots of great-grand kids. With this many adults, all with thoughts, opinions and their own "right", there is A LOT of shit in this family. Bad blood, unforgivable actions, blah, blah on and on. My cousin passing away added another layer of crap to the smelly pile and made the trip hard for my mom.. add to that my cousin wasn't able to get time off work, and my favorite part.. that pile o'shit with my name on it that I left 18 years ago.. found me within 24 hours of landing. That was nice.
So, mom and I spent a couple of days sight seeing Ohio, the zoo, the mall, the levee, some of KY, and just hung out. I got to spend a couple of days with my cousins and that was wonderful! I also just about finished my book. Overall Cini was good to me. I got what I went for, I have a few names to add to my Christmas card list, and a couple of cousins that I will keep in my small pile of friends. If there is to ever be another trip to Ohio, it will be for them.
What I liked the best is that my cousin and his wife are going to come to Utah early next year!

My mom with her little sister (the two babys). My Aunt Vicki and Brenda. They took us to a great BBQ dinner.

Rino at the Cincinnati Zoo.. I had always heard they had the greatest zoo. I was surprised at how much I didn't care for it. Zoo's are hard to deal with when I really think about what they are, but I personally feel our zoo is much nicer.

My uncle Rick, cousin Mike and myself. My uncle has a beautiful home with lots of land and horses. My cousin Sarah (the baby of us grand kids) is getting married at his house on the 1st.

Michael and Richard. When I little there was a line of us.. Angie, me, Mike, Tracey, Richard. We are all 1 year apart and were the greatest of friends. I am so happy to have these two ULTRA competitive idiots back in my life. They took me out to bars, tried to get me to drink, and taught me how to play Wii.. Ohhh and yes, I beat Mike in EVERYTHING, and beat Rich in softball. It's amazing what to much to drink can do for ones skills... good times.